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Spring 2004, Vol. 12, No. 1
The Mind, the Body, and Child Sexual Abuse
The following article by Dr. James Mercy is an invited
commentary. Dr. Mercy is Associate Director for Science at
the Division of Violence Prevention, U.S. Centers for Disease
Control and Prevention. He also serves on the Board of Directors
of Stop It Now!.
Ive
always been interested in the profound and mysterious ways
that the body and the mind are connected. It seems like we
are constantly discovering new ways our emotions and feelings
relate to our physical body. Yet even with all we know, I
think our culture has a tendency to discount, and even disbelieve,
that the ways weve learned to think and feel have dramatic
implications for our behavior and health. At the same time,
the potential influence of genetic and other biological factors
seems to be much more readily accepted and influential in
terms of how we invest limited resources for treatment and
prevention of many different health problems. These observations
lead me to wonder if our societal complacency towards the
problem of child sexual abuse may be, in part, rooted in our
skepticism towards mind-body connections. In the absence of
severe physical injury or disease, do we, as a society, subconsciously
believe that the consequences of child sexual abuse for its
victims cant really be that bad?
Im trained as a scientist to be skeptical and to be,
at least theoretically, objective. But even a scientific skeptic
cant ignore the accumulating evidence documenting a
link between child sexual abuse, the emotions and cognitions
of its victims, and their physical health. We are learning
that because survivors of sexual abuse often develop depression
and anxiety in their lifetimes, and, in turn, risky behaviors
or conditions such as smoking, substance abuse, promiscuity,
and obesity, they may ultimately also be at greater risk for
serious illnesses such as cancer, heart disease, and HIV.
The injuries caused by child sexual abuse, therefore, unfold
throughout ones life and may have a substantial impact
on, not just the quality of life, but also life expectancy.
Weve also learned that adult survivors of child sexual
abuse use health services far more often than those who have
not been abused and that they often present with complaints
(e.g., chronic pain and headaches) that are among those most
frequently encountered by primary care physicians. I cannot
help but wonder: If one out of every five women and one out
of every seven men has been sexually abused, what might the
full impact of child sexual abuse be on our health care system
and on the chronic and infectious diseases that most profoundly
affect the health of our nation?
The scientific skeptic in me acknowledges that the evidence
concerning these associations is far from complete and, therefore,
we need more research. But my heart tells me that we also
need to do a better job of forthrightly and clearly communicating
how child sexual abuse affects its victims and what it may
be costing each and every one of us. My heart and mind also
tell me that preventing child sexual abuse is vital. Reaching
people before they abuse and before they are abused is one
of, if not the most important way, to stop the damaging and
costly effects of child sexual abuse. Programs like Stop It
Now! and others that focus on prevention must continue to
press for change until child sexual abuse is eradicated.
From Questions to Answers
In 1992, when Stop It Now! was founded, we felt strongly
that increasing public awareness about sexual abuse was not
enough, by itself, to radically change behaviors. Popular
strategies such as Just Say No oversimplified
a complex and emotional family issue, and we set out to broaden
the field of prevention to include a public health campaign
focused on adults.
Our first goal was to assess what the public understood about
child sexual abuse and use that information to look at the
barriers to and incentives for preventative action. At that
time, no one else in the country had studied the publics
knowledge or awareness of child sexual abuse. Using the tools
of public health, experts from around the country helped us
design the first telephone survey of the publics knowledge,
attitudes, and beliefs (KAB) surrounding child sexual abuse
for our pilot program in Vermont. Then, over the next seven
years, our sponsoring agencies in Philadelphia, Minnesota,
and Georgia, repeated the survey to collect data in each of
those locations and nationally. The results, which are summarized
below, were surprisingly consistent with the original findings
from Vermont. This data is the foundation from which all of
our program work is built.
AWARENESS Over 95 percent of respondents said Yes
when asked: Are you familiar with the term child sexual
abuse? We also found that a majority of respondents
knew that abusers lived in their communities. However, when
asked if they saw child sexual abuse as a problem, there seemed
to be significant variations, with a high of 89 percent in
Georgia and a low of 49 percent nationally.
TALKING ABOUT CHILD SEXUAL ABUSE Most respondents
(>85 percent) were willing to offer some explanation of
child sexual abuse. Unfortunately, for many, their explanation
was: Child sexual abuse is the sexual abuse of children.
Even when prompted, they were not able or not willing to give
a more detailed explanation such as touching the private
parts of a child. In our national survey, only 38 percent
of respondents demonstrated that they could talk about the
issue. In our pilot areas, the number of respondents who could
explicitly talk about it was over 60 percent.
IDENTIFYING WARNING SIGNS Over three-quarters of respondents
were able to identify at least one warning sign of sexual
abuse in a child. This is a tribute to the work of prevention
experts who have worked for decades to educate the public
about child sexual abuse. However, this number dropped to
less than half when respondents were asked for a warning sign
or characteristic of someone who has been (or is) an abuser.
KNOWING WHAT TO DO We asked respondents what they
would do if they knew someone was sexually abusing a child.
In these cases, at least three-quarters of the respondents
knew to report the sexual abuse. A significant percentage
said they would either talk with the individual or refer him/her
to an appropriate agency. We also asked what they would do
if they were faced with a situation where they knew someone
might be sexually abusing a child, but were not sure. In this
case, a third of respondents said they would report the situation.
One quarter said they would talk directly to the individual
or offer a referral. One quarter said they would not know
what to do.
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The results of these surveys are the basis of the program
work at Stop It Now!. Because people do not know the warning
signs for perpetration, our programs emphasize teaching these
signs. Because adults do not know what to do or what to say
to other adults about child sexual abuse, our programs and
materials offer skill building in these areas. For example,
our training materials help adults learn to use explicit language
and proper names of body parts when describing sexual abuse.
Furthermore, our helpline continues to encourage families
to educate themselves, ask questions, create a family safety
plan, and especially, to stay involved when they are concerned
about a situation but have no evidence or information to report
to authorities.
Results from these surveys in Philadelphia, Minnesota and
Georgia can be found on our website www.stopitnow.org.
by Joan Tabachnick
For Development News, Tune Into WJBH
WJBH
is Stop It Now! shorthand for Were Just Brainstorming
Here. We turn it on whenever we need an altered mode of thinking
and communicating to solve really big problems. The quiet
hum of WJBH in the background helps us suspend the usual judgement
and analysis that brings static to our everyday thinking.
We turn up the volume on novel thinking and let our ideas
blast.
At the beginning of 2003, The Board of Directors tuned into
WJBH to see if they could help us to solve the fundraising
dilemma faced by so many non profits in these years of shrinking
individual and public support. In the spirit of brainstorming,
they generated a number of ideas that had never been considered
before. One of them lit a fire under a Board Member who said,
Ill donate $1,000 to get that idea started.
The result is the Angel Ad, which ran in The Atlantic Monthly
in December 2003, and netted us many inquiries and some donors.
Other national magazines are currently considering placing
it as well.
The Angel Ad was the collaboration of Board Members William
Ferguson, Bob Mazer and Linda Bowen, with help from Development
Consultant, Holly Martineau. Copy was donated by Sujeong Shin;
Doreen St. John created the graphic: and Sue Laks of Harmelin
Media in Bala Cynwyd, Pennsylvania executed the pro bono placement.
From start to finish, this ad shows that WJBH is the place
to listen for successful ideas.
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THE FOUNDERS SAFETY NET FOR CHILDREN, a giving
circle started last year, welcomes people who wish to
pledge at least $1,000 for each of the next three years.
We are pleased to report that every Board Member of
Stop It Now! has signed up. Current members of the FoundersSafety
Net are:
Jean Beard
Alan Berkowitz
Linda Bowen
Steven Brown
Lisa Chasan-Taber
Sarah Creighton
Robert Falconer
F. Felix Foundation
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William Ferguson
William Ford
Joan & Wil Hastings
Fran Henry
Ellen Kaufman, MD
Larry Kressley
Jenny Ladd
Sally Levering
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Pamela McMahon
Timothy McNally
James Mercy
N.J. Pierce
Barbara Tabachnick
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Helpline
A Look Back at Helpline Calls 2003
The Stop It Now! helpline received a total of 666 calls in
2003. Seventy-seven percent of the calls were from friends
and family members concerned about behaviors of a loved one,
16 percent were from individuals and professionals looking
for information, and 7 percent were from adults concerned
about their own thoughts, feelings or acting-out behaviors
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Callers to the Stop It Now! helpline speak to us confidentially.
The following are composite stories using callers own
words:
I am a survivor of incest and
am getting therapy for that, but now I have to deal with the
other side of the issue: the fantasies, interests, and responses
to possible abusing behaviors. I havent offended, nor
do I plan to, but these feelings are so disturbing, I know
I need help.
Adult concerned about his own thoughts and feelings*
My six year-old daughter says
her half-sister, my ten year-old daughter from a previous
marriage, tried to touch her private parts while playing
doctor. The hardest part is that my ex-wife refuses
to see that there might be a problem, and my current wife
cant understand that I need to support BOTH my daughters.
How do I talk with them both about this?
Parent of potential victim AND child with sexual
behavior problems
I am concerned for my cousin
and his nine year-old son. They sleep in the same bed together
every night. At family gatherings, my cousin seems overly
affectionate with his son and acts jealous when other relatives
give him attention. I might be overreacting, but something
seems off. What should I do?
Concerned family member
by Amanda Horowitz
*Having been
sexually abused as a child does not predict abusive behaviors
later in life.
Site News
GEORGIA
Stop It Now! Georgia is sponsoring an advanced training for
treatment providers in March, hoping to increase the number
of therapists in Georgia who specialize in child sexual abuse.
The training is provided free of charge when the recipient
agrees to complete 2000 hours of therapeutic supervision.
Georgia has also organized a special meeting with juvenile
court judges and district attorneys that will take place in
May. These officials, from counties in Georgia that have Stop
It Now! services, will discuss policy issues relating to juvenile
sex offenses in Georgia.
MINNESOTA
Stop It Now! Minnesota is working to include a prevention
message into the debate around the tragic death of 22 year-old
Dru Sjodin who was allegedly kidnapped and murdered by a sex
offender on parole. Staff at the Minnesota site wrote an opinion
piece that was published in the St. Paul Pioneer Press along
with a follow-up Letter to the Editor emphasizing the importance
of adult and community responsibility to prevent child sexual
abuse. Stop It Now! Minnesota also continued media efforts
by sponsoring a full-page child sexual abuse prevention ad
in the Pioneer Press.
PHILADELPHIA
Stop It Now! Philadelphia, in association with the Northwest
Interfaith Movement Daycare Collaborative, has expanded outreach
efforts to daycare facilities. Stop It Now! staff are in the
formative stages of getting permission to offer prevention
materials to parents of children in daycare centers throughout
Philadelphia.
VERMONT
Stop It Now! Vermont is undergoing an open-ended evaluation
to determine its future direction. The evaluation focuses
on funding sources and sustainable initiatives.
UNITED KINGDOM
Two new Stop It Now! sites are starting in the UK and Ireland.
The National Society for the Prevention of Cruelty to Children
is funding a site in Croydon, and government funding is supporting
work in Northern Ireland. Stop It Now! staff are creating
a new brochure for adults who have questions about their sexual
thoughts, feelings and behavior towards children. This brochure
is a compliment to the increasing number of helpline calls
from adults with such concerns.
by Michael Pease
New Book Links Child Sexual Abuse and Adult Sexual Risk
A new book edited by CDC and National Institute for Mental
Health staff is poised to make an important contribution to
the field of prevention. The American Psychological Association
published the book, with the following description:
From
Child Sexual Abuse to Adult Sexual
Risk: Trauma, Revictimization, and
Intervention
Edited by Linda J. Koenig, PhD,
Lynda S. Doll, PhD, Ann OLeary, PhD,
and Willo Pequegnat, PhD
From Child Sexual Abuse to Adult Sexual Risk examines the
relation between child sexual abuse and adult sexual health
outcomes in men and women. An emerging body of literature
suggests that children who experience sexual violence are
more likely to engage in sexual risk behavior and, consequently,
may be vulnerable to many negative reproductive and sexual
health problems as adults. These problems include unwanted
pregnancy, sexually transmitted diseases, HIV infection, and
adult sexual violence. Stop It Now! is working with other
staff scientists at the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention
(CDC) and additional researchers to inform physicians and
the medical community about the health outcomes of child sexual
abuse. We know physicians could be more engaged in preventing
sexual abuse if they better understood the link between child
sexual abuse and the common presenting symptoms in their patients
population. We believe this book will help our efforts.
To learn more or to order the book, please visit http://www.apa.org/books/4317016.html.
Stop It Now! In the News
Laura Davis, co-author of The Courage to Heal, includes
ideas and participants from Stop It Now!s Dialogue Project
in her latest work, The Last Frontier: Is Reconciliation
Possible After Sexual Abuse?. Donna Jenson is interviewed
as a survivor, and Wayne Bowers speaks of his experiences
in recovery from sexual offending. Each of them points the
way toward healing and restorative communication for people
affected by sexual abuse. The workbook and tapes are available
at www.LauraDavis.net.
Alisa Klein, Stop It Now!s Director of Public
Policy, was interviewed extensively for and quoted in the
December 11, 2003 Cape Cod Register. The article discussed
the impact of community notification on keeping children safe
from sexual abuse, and can be found online at http://www.townonline.com/barnstable/news/local_regional/
reg_newtrsexoffenders12112003.htm.
Contemporary Sexuality, a newsletter of the American
Association of Sex Educators, Counselors and Therapists, featured
Stop It Now! as the cover story of its December 2003 issue.
The article offered a summary review of the primary prevention
work that Stop It Now! conducts through its sites. Expert
Panel member Gina Ogden is quoted as saying, "[Stop
It Now!] has a chance to be successful in a groundswell-building
way."

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